Secrets

Secrets! I have so many secrets! In my secret tower of tools and materials, I have five to fifteen rings going on simultaneously at any given time (sometimes more, who’s to say). I have no qualms about keeping these secrets from the public, as I consider myself under a HIPAA-like oath. My qualms lie in the tradition of keeping secrets from your beloved! Unless you have been specifically and enthusiastically directed by your partner to proceed secretly, I will always encourage radical transparency and deliberate collaboration when it comes to designing commitment rings. This ring will be looked at by you every day for a very long time if not forever, so you might as well like it a lot. You know you best, and you might discover more about yourself in the process of choosing how this special object looks! Consider adding elements of secrecy in how or when the ring is gifted instead.

Life is full of surprises. Despite what we see in movies, your symbol of commitment to each other does not have to be one of them. Unless that’s your vibe, of course. I have also seen it go spectacularly well (more on that to come).

Here are some pieces that were in my secret tower, but have been gifted, and can now be seen by all.